Reflecting
on the ways in which quilts were used to sell, trade, or to pay debts, the role
of girl as producers of products presents a different way for me to consider
quilting. As a way of contributing
to the household economy, the girls and women of the home did their own part,
by producing quilts on top of doing all of the work already set out for
them.
This is
in stark contrast to my views of female as consumers of products, which is much
more millennial, and not so much early twentieth century or nineteenth century. The female as consumer seems linked to
marketing and to obtaining or maintenance of a class position. Different from quilting, my vision of
female consumerism has so much less to do with survival, warmth, or
contribution to the household.
Complicating
the above thoughts, however, is the knowledge that women’s roles in the
professional world differ so much from the ways women have worked and
contributed to their homes historically.
Of course, there is the second shift, which women have worked for
hundreds of years. There was the
first shift, of cleaning and cooking, mending, gardening, and canning (among
other roles) in some races and classes.
There was fieldwork, servitude, cooking, cleaning, etc., in other races
and classes. But after the sun had
set, there was the second shift.
This shift included helping children, the children setting in on second
shift of school work, quilting, cleaning, washing, etc. The 1980s gives me the great memory of
women setting off to work in high heels to work from “9 to 5” and return home
to clean, cook, wash, etc. This
female producer leads me to discussion of the female consumer.
The female
consumer plays a role in the girl/female community, which seems to me, to set a
bar. I consider Pottery Barn, online
shopping, and places where the female consumer sets herself in line to walk
with the other females who are consuming.
I wonder about websites likes David’s Bridal, which are probably perused
by most to-be brides, bridesmaids and female family members. I think about the trends being set on
those highly trafficked sites, which tell females what to consider “in,” or “out.” In my early years, my mother turned to
Cosmopolitan and Women’s Day magazine, also, Good Housekeeping to learn that
the particular year’s black was chocolate brown or navy blue.
The
quilting community brought women together, whereas writing was a personal activity,
I would think. With today’s
technology, the female gathering community has become global. The females can work together on
written collaborations, fundraisers, send quilting squares across the globe to
make community quilts, and blogs have made the most private thoughts
public. The female community is no
longer local, we are global – producing and consuming globally.
Karen:
ReplyDeleteYou make great points on several fronts; especially regarding a woman’s “first and second shifts.”
I have almost completed my first year in an NMSU doctoral program. The homework load has been immense. Prior to enrolling in the program, my schedule was already hectic; filled by my duties as a fulltime faculty member at UTEP. I teach digital filmmaking and film theory courses. The production classes are intensive; aside from the complex instructional section, the curriculum covers creative, technical, and theoretical components. Then there are my responsibilities as a husband and father to college-age sons.
However, I am ashamed when I whine, because several of my female peers in the doctoral cohort share similar responsibilities, plus they manage “a second shift.” That shift as you mentioned often includes the nighttime duties of a mom (cooking, cleaning, playing, reading, tucking, etc.). So when I feel overwhelmed, I think about my female peers and their daily challenges. I have so much respect for their accomplishments and determination.
Bobby,
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your compassion and understanding for women.
Colleen
Oh definitely Colleen...
ReplyDeleteI meant to comment on your bio earlier. I admire you for the commitment and leadership that you provide your kids. I am sure they have an awesome template to reference.
Bobby